What To Do When It Feels God Breaks Your Heart

“We’ve seen this happen many times with much older women, but at 29 we’re not sure why this is happening to you. Unfortunately, this baby will not make it and we expect him to pass away before we see you next week.” I was 26 weeks pregnant with my first child when these words were…

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While We Wait

I don’t know about you but I have found that no matter where I find myself in life there always seems to be the most ideal place to be…and I’m never there.  Have you ever caught yourself having any of these thoughts?  I should have a better job by now. All my classmates are in…

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Anti-Virus Update!

If there is one thing I would recommend to the queens reading this post, to my 12 year old self, to my sister and cousins, to my future daughter, to anyone who is a child of God, it would be this: Guard your heart! We have all read this Scripture before and probably learnt it…

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Standing But Not Falling In Love

I used to think of myself as a hopeless romantic.  Some of my favourite movies include The Notebook, Message in a Bottle, Walk To Remember, Titanic—how much time do you have? because, trust me, I could go on and on.  In my 20’s when I lived alone in my tiny apartment, I would spend my…

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Secret Sauce To A Sustained Marriage

I really struggled putting this post together. Talking about marriage can be so nerve-wracking because, indirectly, your own marriage is put on a pedestal-the gold standard from which all your wisdom about marriage comes from. Here’s the disclaimer: Everything I share and know about marriage is partly from experience but largely from God. He is…

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